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Message from God on feeling unloved in a relationship
The moment God shows up feeling unloved ENDS
Feeling unloved is the worst.
Ask a relationship coach who is in love, but out of love, how she came to know love.
Ms. Love’s insights will help you shed light on how to feel loved when love is nowhere to be found.
Have the days of not finding love left you pondering if intimate relationships are only in fairy tales, movies, and make-belief?
Are you questioning whether you are worthy of love?
There are days when it may seem like the “lost in love” feeling is unattainable and when…
You may feel like this…
You are not alone and…
A call to a relationship coach who talks to God can help redirect you back to love.
Your relationship coach, #AskMsLove, has been there.
Ms. Love knows you can be in love while…
- Out of love
- Searching for love
- Questioning your value
- Feeling unloved and unwanted
Many places, like WikiHow, have articles on how to find love.
However, are they suggesting you find love as they define love?
A new understanding of love begins with recognizing real love vs. counterfeit love or false love.
Let’s start with
- Looking at what does love mean
- Asking where do you find love
- Understanding how do I stay in love
- Learning how do I love others
1. What does love mean?
If you ask this question to an assembly of people, you will get a multitude of answers.
As cute as a child’s definition is of love, it still leaves one wondering what love is?
When was the last time you heard the character traits of love being regaled?
Is love the attributes often described at a wedding, like in the What is Love image below?
Have you ever been asked to implement your name in place of love in the above verse to see how you measure up?
We advise you refrain from doing so unless you want to add a more profound feeling of loss and unlovable.
To find out what something is, what it does, or how it works – ask the maker.
Since the “What is love – What does love mean?” question has been asked for centuries, let’s journey back in time and find love in its purest form.
2. Where do you find love?
The Apostle Paul, inspired by God, wrote the timeless, treasured piece of literature, “Love is…” describing the essence of God.
Man has been trying to become God ever since, thinking this passage describes man’s love.
When a Bible verse is out of context, it holds a standard one cannot possibly live up to achieving.
The above verse on love, out of context, implies that if you had loved or loved some, you would be treated and treat others with these absolutes.
Putting this work of art, I Corinthians 13:4-8, back into context and cross-referencing it, which means looking at other related verses.
We find love is mentioned 310 times in the NASB Bible, to which we discover the truth God is love.
In the sentiment of Love Is…, replace the word love for God and then reread it.
Bamm. You have just met God. God is Love.
3. How do you stay in love?
Your True Lover is faithful and gentle. He will never abandon you.
He always has time for you, and He hushes all of heaven to hear your voice.
He loves you like crazy, and He can’t stop thinking about you.
Nothing you have done can do or will do can hinder how much He loves you.
However…
Love is not something you muster up on your own.
By connecting to God’s love, God’s spirit of LOVE will remain in you by abiding in Him.
The easiest way to fall in love with yourself is to turn to God is love.
When you are in God’s presence, all darkness will flee.
It is like turning on a light in a dark room – evil cannot stay – as love floods the room.
Perfect love casts out all fear.
God is good all the time as God is love.
4. How do you love someone?
Love is not a feeling.
Love is a Who seen through your attributes.
When people end a relationship by either going to their eternal home or a new relationship, there may be an ache in your heart.
And yet, the parting of ways calls for a celebration.
Death – celebrate your loved one is in the eternity of their choosing.
Divorce (relationships ending) – celebrate your partner’s choice to take responsibility for their own life and choose what is best for them.
Being attached to a trustworthy source of love reassures you, you will never lose the love of your life.
Find true love today. If you need help, ask the best relationship coach your question.
PS. To earn a degree in love, invite love to come into your life, study the word love in the Bible, and apply the attributes to your life.
Fall in love with yourself more by
practicing three loving character traits
When feeling unloved in a relationship or confused, switch yourself by BUILDING character traits: Patient, Kind, and Peaceful
Today, I will make a list of what eats away at my PATIENCE
Idea: Make yourself wait today
PATIENT: I don't get easily ruffled
pg 44 of the daily Lifestyle Planner
Patience, persistence, and perspiration make an unbeatable combination for success. – Napoleon Hill
Who can I show KINDNESS to today?
Idea: Slow down, breathe, smile, and say something KIND
KIND: I look for ways to help others
pg 36 of the daily Lifestyle Planner
One can pay back the loan of gold, but one dies forever in debt to those who are kind. – Malayan Proverb
How can I bring more PEACE into my day?
Idea: Get your heart and mind right with God
PEACEFUL: I can quiet my mind
pg 62 of the daily Lifestyle Planner
If you are depressed, you are living in the past. If you are anxious, you are living in the future. And If you are at peace, you are living in the present. - Lao Tzu
To develop a vibrant love life, use the daily character trait training in the Lifestyle Planner.
Learn how to feel loved and to "know what am I feeling"
IDENTIFY YOUR FEELINGS with help from the positive emotions and sad words lists
Have you ever finished talking and had no idea what you said or why? No worries.It happens to all of us.
- Turn to pg 10-13 in the daily Lifestyle Planner, read the positive emotions, and then the sad words list.
- Identify what you feel, then pinpoint what needs your feelings are highlighting.
When feelings are from the sad word list, find a different way to meet your need.
Keep in mind the most challenging part of communication is deciphering the needs and feelings of another when they do not know them.
Knowing what you and another NEED AND FEEL is crucial so that you can effectively communicate.
Fall in love with yourself again by validating your needs
Express love and gratitude for others by communicating your NEED along with an action step.
- Identify what are you feeling and why
- Link the need not being met to the sad feelings
- Communication your desired action step to meet the need
Deepen your love connections
Not feeling Loved? Stop treating Love as a feeling.
Know when to run, how to bond, and how to communicate so that you are heard.
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In the Flow of Love
The relatable love life of Ms. Love
- In Love? Heartbroken? Vulnerable? Yes
- I was married at 19
- Ended a 25-year abusive marriage
- Single for six years
- Founded an alternative to online dating
- Married my best friend, 2 1/2 years later he was gone
- Pain produced significant lessons
- A broken heart propelled me to become better
- Love originates with God flowing to us and through us
- I choose to love life regardless of the circumstances
- I have three adult children, one son-in-law, and five adorable grandbabies
What am I feeling? I feel unloved - is that a feeling?
Love is patient, Love is Kind
We advise you to start with taking the Codependency Quiz, order the 90-Day All-In-One Planner, and learn about Color Your Bible.
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Ms. Love’s message and love infused greatness into my life. Talking with her transformed my life and improved the example I was setting for my children and grandchildren. I am forever grateful.
Tanya W. – Admin Assistant
Sharon has helped me to reach heights I never thought were possible with my life. I was lost. She challenges me to be the best version of myself. I call upon her wisdom often. She is a faithful and loyal friend and confidant.
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When you have a mess to clean up, Ms. Love is the one to call. She comes in, takes a look around, hands you some heart medication, and then begins to transform the space magically. What was once in chaos celebrates order. Whether it is your office space, your headspace, or your heart space when you are lost, Sharon has the touch.
There are times you are feeling unloved in a relationship, not feeling love, feeling unloved and unwanted; remember this San Diego relationship coach says
Life is hard, but God is good.
