"I Hate My Life"
Indicates Faith is Lost
clear the slate and revisit Your Faith Walk
Find out which comes first: Mind-body-spirit-soul
Learn to walk by faith and not by sight
Discover how to begin trusting God in difficult times
Increase your gratitude and appreciation
Understand the power of thoughts
I hate my life - I hate my family
hating your life is a gift
Passing through the season of hating your life is not a road you need to travel alone.
Yes, it is a season. And yes, although it may not feel like it, it will pass.
Maybe you have felt like Jody.
Thank you for being honest and sharing with us your need to know that you matter.
We accept your gift of meeting your need for validation and offer this page in hopes of satisfying your desire.
The key to changing your outlook is to deepen your faith.
But first, let’s talk about the intense emotion of hate.
1. The strong emotion of hate
If hate were allowed to speak, hate would tell you:
I quietly showed you disgust, disharmony, and annoyance so that your need for connection, peace, and to know you matter could be satisfied. Yet, you refused to listen. I am a warning siren going off in your head. Could you wake up and listen to me? I am asking YOU to change how you are meeting YOUR needs.
When you do not listen to gentle nudges to change, emotions build upon each other until you explode or choose to do something about them.
You are receiving the gift of hating your life SO THAT you can choose a different path..
2. We walk by faith, not by sight
It takes faith to move about your day – you did not see this moment happening until you are here.
Faith is required to drive. You have faith the other driver is going to stay in their lane.
You have confidence your vehicle will start when you turn the key.
Life is a faith walk. Faith means believing in what you cannot see.
Not liking what you see is an indication you are walking by sight and not by faith.
Hating your life indicates it is time to stop focusing on what you see and restore your faith walk.
Where does your faith originate? Which path of faith have you chosen?
Choosing your faith walk in a world of spiritual options is best done methodically.
Examine your answers.
- Is there a faith that you follow or something that you believe? Why?
- Are you willing to write a list of what your faith believes in your planner?
- Will you lay down your life to practice your faiths teachings?
- Is it time to believe something different?
When considering faith walks, God and the 10 Commandment are always somewhere in the discussion.
Keeping the commandments of love embodies freedom. Review the list and see if there is any reason why you don’t want to keep them?
Even agnostics and atheists have God in the conversation.
Agnostics believe it is impossible to know if gods exist or not.
Atheists don’t believe in any gods.
If God weren’t God, the question of God or the belief in God wouldn’t be debated.
If you don’t want to live according to God’s standards, say so – no excuses are needed.
When you find yourself questioning who God is,
If God is real and if you can know God.
Ask God to prove Himself to you.
God is a relational God who loves to interact with His people.
His beauty and wonder are seen in creation.
God speaks through a still quiet voice within you.
He wired your DNA to know right from wrong.
He gave you feelings and emotions so that you could experience and connect to Him and others.
Bottom line, if God doesn’t prove Himself to you, don’t believe in Him.
He is up for the challenge.
If you seek Him, you will find Him.
3. Mind-body-spirit-soul
What is the mind-body-spirit connection? Where does the soul come in?
Dr. Caroline Leaf in Brain Wiring covers the subject beautifully. Read about your brain, toxic thoughts, toxic words, and managing stress by clicking here.
You are a one-of-a-kind original. Do not die a copycat.
No one else is like you.
Created in power, love, and with a sound mind come back to your created state.
Someone will need the story of your breakthrough to get them through, so share the journey of living your best life.
You are a spirit with a soul and a mind housed in a rented bodysuit.
Use the power of thoughts to
develop these three faith-based character traits
the power of thought is needed to switch yourself and Build character traits: Courageous, Committed, and Hopeful
What can I do to be more COURAGEOUS today?
Idea: Stop procrastinating and give it a go
COURAGEOUS: I will go alone if need be
Pg 150 of the Lifestyle Planner
Success is not final; failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts. -- Winston S. Churchill
Who or what task can I become more COMMITTED to today?
Idea: Commit to driving the speed limit
COMMITTED: I am wholeheartedly dedicated
pg 36 of the Lifestyle Planner
Don’t be content with doing only your duty. Do more than your duty. It’s the horse that finishes a neck ahead who wins the race. --Andrew Carnegie
Where in my life do I need more HOPE?
Idea: List your successes and the lessons learned from your failures
HOPEFUL: I feel good about the future
pg 54 of the Lifestyle Planner
For I know the plans I have for you. declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. –Jeremiah
Deepen your faith walk by using the daily character trait training in the Lifestyle Planner
Trust God in difficult times by adding gratitude and appreciation
Gratitude and Appreciation adds value to you and your day
There is great power behind thoughts as they become actions and words welding great benefits.
The word gratitude means the quality of being thankful, readiness to show appreciation, and return kindness.
There are scientifically proven benefits to expressing gratitude, and there is the power behind appreciation.
The thoughtful act of expressing gratitude benefits the world around you.
The more thankfulness you express, the more appreciation you will have for yourself and towards others.
Measure your gratitude and appreciation by writing them down in the “I Am Grateful For” section of your planner.
Gratitude for today can start with I am grateful for…
- A roof over my head
- Clothes on my body
- Food that tastes yummy
Search for three gratitudes each day.
Record people or things you are grateful for the moment they enter your mind.
After you write down three things, take gratitude and appreciation one step farther and do something for the person who fills your heart with thankfulness.
A rich life expresses gratitude and appreciation through random acts of kindness.
Show appreciation through old fashion snail mail thank you notes.
Express gratitude by sharing the link to this website with anyone you know who is struggling with life include which part of the content helped you.
Consider posting or writing a blog about your experience and linking it to our website. Use hashtag #AskMsLove and #PriorityDrivenLife.
Questions about God?
Ask, Ms. Love Will Reply
Ms. Love's Passion for God's Word provides insight and a different perspective
If you do not have a personal relationship with God, ask Him to reveal Himself to you. And when He does, invite Him to come into your life. From there, get into the Word of God and the Holy Spirit will work with you to deepen your faith. Start with the book of Romans.
Searching for Truth
discover truth in the most accurate history book ever written
Embrace the curiosity and mind of a child and discover truth for yourself
Just as children desire to do things for themselves – we know you want to see the truth for yourself.
Grab your markers, colored pencils, and highlighters.
And a Bible you are okay coloring in.
Click the button below for instructions and the $2.00 Color-Logic Bible Study Symbols
WAIT before you click the button.
Be aware there will be parts in the Bible you will not like. When you come to those areas, remind yourself when Dad says, “No,” He does it for your good.
Trusting God in Difficult Times
The Relatable Faith of Ms. Love
- Confused? Isolated? Questioning God? I was
- Dad talked to ghosts
- Felt Grandma and Grandpa were a witch and a warlock
- Given a choice to serve evil or God, I choose God
- Dislike religion with a passion
- Referred to as a “personal angel,” a muse, and an old soul
- Faith is authentic and experiential; my life reveals God
- I follow the voice of God, even when I don’t understand
- Faith moves me forward when logic screams stop
- The Word of God is my manual to life, love, finances, and faith
- I know God in a profoundly intimate and personal way. To say I love God is an understatement
When the 'I Hate My Life' Feeling Appears...
believe, CLEAR THE SLATE, start over, and take action
We advise you to take the Codependency Quiz, order the 90-Day All-In-One Lifestyle Planner, and then go to the Color Your Bible page to learn a fresh way to interact with the Word of God.
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Deepening my faith eliminates losing my faith
Every day be thankful and grateful that you Have the choice to choose to walk by faith and not by sight
Karest N. – Flight Attendant
Even though she faced some dark days, Ms. Love’s example of a happy and carefree spirit inspires me. Her faithfulness, dedication, and willingness to continually allow God to transform her is incredible. Sharon’s ability to reach out to others in love and show empathy though her heart is breaking makes her my hero.
Joan P. – Interior Designer
Where does one begin to describe Ms. Love and the impact she has on their life. Love is accepting, loving, and remarkable. Her ability to create beauty everywhere she goes and within everyone she meets is a true gift. You will be a more beautiful person after having worked with her.
Jayne vS. – Designer
Ms. Love opens her arms and offers her hand, extending grace to touch the heart of another without reservation. God gifts her to reach beyond the clutter and sometimes awkward dance of the human condition to connect souls. She climbs the mountains of life with ease and invites others to join her. Oh! She also lights the path when darkness comes.
We encourage you to help others who may be going through a season of: “I hate my life.” Directing them to prioritydrivenlife.com so that they too can deepen their faith and place confidence in trusting God in difficult times.
Life is hard, but God is good.
