UnHappy Marriage? 15 Ways to Happily Destroy It
We have an unhappy marriage and we are separating but I have hope. Don’t kid yourself.
The choice of moving on, getting out, was thought about over 65 times before you or your spouse ever got to this present reality.
Every day with every choice you are deciding whether or not you will move closer to your spouse or further away.
Every choice of yes is backed by a thousand no’s.
Are you are a doer or a thinker?
No one can make you choose to keep your marriage on track, nor can you choose for your partner.
Below is a list of ways you can further destroy your unhappy marriage.
Be careful when you do the opposite you will be bonding to your spouse.
Here goes…
Make your unhappy marriage more unhappy today!
Simple acts and thoughtless words have the power to heal or to harm.
Let’s do some harming, shall we?
Or wait… Maybe rethink your conflict resolution plan
These unhappy marriage signs = ways to destroy your marriage
- Speak Evil and Words of Death Over Your Partner – Daily
- Quick, Closed-Mouth, Impersonal Kisses – Only When Needed – Otherwise Don’t Kiss Them
- Avoid Touching, Show No Interest in Sex – Daily
- Do Not Date Your Mate – Ever
- Watch Hours of Mind-Numbing Netflix Series or Youtube Videos – Weekly
- Avoid the 1st Step of Bonding, Eye to Body – Daily – Don’t Look at Your Partner
- Visualize Your Marriage Destroying Other People’s Hope in Love – Weekly
- Spend an Every Weekend Avoiding Your Spouse – Every Weekend
- Attend a Selfish, Self-Centered, All About Me Conference – Anytime You Can
- Ignore Your Financial Obligations – Every Day
- Do not talk about the future – Ever
- Look for alternative lovers and housing – Whenever you can
- Make a list of items you need to move out – Review weekly
- Pack your things – move things to storage when your spouse is not home
- Wait for the right time, blow up at your partner, move out, and tell everyone they made you move
Tada!! Destruction has begun…
Be aware of the impact of your selfish, self-centeredness on all of those around you. It will continue long after you are gone.
At the same time, now that you know what destroys your marriage…
A loveless marriage can be transformed
Are you ready to transform your marriage?
It starts with you coming clean with God. God is the one you have issues with, not your spouse.
Would you talk to or treat your spouse differently if Jesus was in the room?
When you are out of line with God – you are out of line.
God sets before you life and death, and asks which will you choose?
So what is it going to be?
Either create your best life with your partner or stop kidding yourself and them and move on already.
Creating your best life involves embracing conflict resolution.
Dr. Carolyn Leaf states:
To learn what it is you are doing that is causing you the most difficultly – ask your spouse, they know.
You may be interested in the $2.00 Email Series Be a Better Lover and the $2.00 Download: 12 Steps to Bonding.
If moving on is your choice, read BEFORE A BAD GOOD-BYE by Tim Clinton
Closing tip: I am an advocate of marriage. I believe marriage is two people coming together to accomplish a mission greater than themselves. And that the hardest part of marriage, has nothing to do with the marriage, but rather each person’s relationship with Jesus Christ.
